We've all dealt with failure of some sort in our lives.
Defined simply as:
"lack of success."Failure is simply anything other than a desired or expected outcome.
Perhaps you played a sport and lost a game that you coulda, shoulda, woulda won.
You tried out for a play but couldn't remember the lines.
In high school, you sat in class dreaming of asking Sam to a dance. One day you finally get up the courage to ask. So you approach with caution in the hall way, approach them at the locker and ask. They laugh in your face.
Or you set out to accomplish a goal of publishing 31 posts in 31 days, only to fall short of the deadline one Saturday night by 3 minutes. That means I didn't complete the task I wanted to achieve.
At the family birthday party you show up late and no matter how you slice the cake, there's not enough to go around. So you don't get a piece.
Failure is only the end if we don't take what we learn and apply it to a new avenue, a new endeavor, a reset of the same goal.
Failure then, is when you quit.
The trick is to continue to find solutions where none appear to exist.
When discussing his problem with the electric lighbulb Thomas Edison is quoted as saying;
"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that don't work."