There's One Simple Thing You're Not Doing That's Limiting You From Achieving Your Goals
Become By Doing
Every musician knows that you don't get better at playing an instrument by just reading music.
Similarly, every basketball player knows that you can't improve your shooting in a game any better without getting off the bench.
Accomplishing a goal is no different.
The first thing you need to do is decide what you want to try to accomplish.
That's the dreamer part.
Everyone has dreams, ideas and "goals."
The hard part is setting in motion the things you need to do for the proper sequence to happen that will make you successful at your goal.
Especially if you don't know what to do in the first place.
Let's say you want to learn how to cook. I mean really cook, like the chefs you see on TV.
When you think about what it takes to get there, what's the first thing you think you need?
That may help but doesn't guarantee that Rhubarb (gross and tart) and Strawberries (sweet and yum!) go together.
But they do.
You can study all you want, but without tasting the flavors together, you may try to add some citrus, or pepper, or something that may not work.
But how would you know if you didn't taste it?
Doing is how we learn.
You Want To Get Something Done? Get Off Your Ass
As an athlete, nobody ever says, "Boy I hope I get some serious bench time in the game tonight."
The point of playing the game is to earn a chance to play. It doesn't matter how often you've watched a drill or skill at practice until you've tried to master the task, you have no idea how to replicate it.
That's why many coaching and teaching methods emphasize a process of modeling.
First you explain an aspect of the overall task and challenge.
Next you demonstrate the skill.
Then you have the players/students work together on acquiring the technical components of the skill.
Finally, you examine the attempts, refine as necessary and re-demonstrate the skill before trying to work on it again.
The objective is to learn mastery of the skill before the competition and the only way you learn the steps necessary for mastery is by doing.
Acquiring better habits, learning new skills to accomplish your goals are all the same aspects of skill mastery.
It takes one direct action to learn a skill and build a better habit. Repetition of those newly acquired tasks are the necessary building blocks of mastery.
If you want to master a new task, build better habits, or improve on something you already know, the only proven path is through action.
So get off the bench, get on your feet and get going.